I need to usually have control and certainty in life (intolerance of uncertainty). I have to be in charge of all my ideas and thoughts all of the time. I must do something to regain that control if I lose control of my thoughts. Thinking the idea means its essential, which is essential because i believe about this. It’s unusual to possess intrusive ideas, and if i really do ask them to this means I’m crazy, strange, etc. Having an intrusive thought and doing just what it shows will be the morally that is same. Considering doing damage, and never preventing it, is equally as bad as committing harm (also called Thought-Action Fusion). Having intrusive thoughts means i’m more likely to work in it. We cannot just take the danger that my ideas should come real.
The result for the questioning behavior on family and friends is rather negative drawing plenty of furious responses or ridicule following the thousandth time. One son i understand questioned their girlfriend so frequently that she ultimately split up with him and this put into their concerns since he now wondered if she did therefore because he wasn’t a “real man. ”
The activities that are compulsive perform as a result with their tips, needless to say, do nothing to be in the problem. Usually the more checking and questioning that is done, the greater doubtful the victim becomes. Regardless if they feel better for the minutes that are few an outcome of a compulsion, the doubt quickly returns. I enjoy inform my clients that it’s as though that information-gathering portion of their brain is coated with Teflon©. Continue Reading